March 30, 2017
It has been my 6-year sabbatical since I last posted in WordPress, and everything I had written back in December 7, 2007 applies today. I have grown “wiser” I believe. Though I’m not sure when the bug of loneliness will eventually come to bite me in full force.
I vanished for awhile though I was off/on would post and just lose myself in Tumblr. There were a few things that I learned…
- Most Bears (hirsute/husky/chubby gay men) tend to gravitate or are attracted to fellow Bears.
- My tastes in men (gay or straight) are completely specific and not as diverse as I once thought I was
- Other folks’ tastes in men of the bear kind are fantastically diverse
So when I say “wiser,” I feel that I need to emphasize that this blog is strictly “my” opinions on what makes a “bear.”
Yes, I am still attracted towards such bears And I am back for as long as I can to document such beautiful creatures…
December 07, 2007
“Oh noes! He’s not a bear!!!!”
Like some of you, I am that solitary gay man living a life of false identities and mistaken friendships. Yet (hopefully this is not true with some of you) I am somewhat content and even satisfied with this chosen lifestyle of solitude and despair. Dramatic, ain’t it? Natch. My best friend (a straight man of all things) jokes about me being emo. Be that as it may, I am 35 years old and I don’t really care as to what I am. This blog will be my release. I love bearish men. That’s all. I think about them daily and quite possibly even unconsciously. I’m a polygamist, I guess, as I tend to feed my visual hungers with various men. I know no loyalty nor commitment to such men I’d lust on film, tv, music, internet video clips, and those random husky bears that I happen to notice around me, as some will be my object of addiction for months while some simply become flavors of the day.
Would I like a partner eventually? I have two lame answers: “Of course” and “Probably not.” I am just so used to what I do everyday that I’ve pretty much given up on looking for that Mr. Right Bear. So, until then, I will be releasing my demons and using this blog as my way to express myself as well as hopefully entertain others who share my same tastes and passions.