Thank Grizzly It’s Friday: I’m Sorry But Can You Allow Me To Find You Attractive?

G2_099[Short BearFic] Gay Bear Fighter Meets With
Korean Time-Traveling Warrior
(Jung-Yul Kim in G2: Mortal Conquest)

Gay Bear Fighter
Hello, Mr. Korean Time-Traveling Warrior.  I’m a gay bear and I–

Korean Time-Traveling Warrior
당신이 떠나 곰이 동성애!
(Translation: You leave gay bear!)

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It’s been a scorching summer so far and I’ve had my share of heated debates with the same arguments I’ve been repeating ever since I started this blog.  I’ve decided to put my rant on such matters on today’s Thank Grizzly It’s Friday.

BearMythology's DisclaimerTo your left is my “Disclaimer” for posting images/videos of men I personally find attractive.

How many websites are out there where straight girls/women and boys/men who would have a similar type of a disclaimer for their blog/site?

I’d wager zero to completely none.

Why?  Because they’re heterosexuals.  They’re “straight” while the rest are “queer.”Scouserugger's Disclaimer

Queers can be attracted to the same sex; however, they shouldn’t let their attractions be known.


It’s gross.  It’s hilarious.  It’s wrong.  It’s pathetic.  It’s disturbing.  It’s funny.

To your right is Scouserugger with his own disclaimer:

You have two bloggers who are basically apologizing for finding such men attractive.

I can’t help but feel like a criminal and Scouserugger and I shouldn’t be treated as one.  Yet we receive angry complaints about doing what we’re doing.

I still cannot comprehend where the animosity and disgust is coming from.  Maybe if I pretended I was a female in the first place, then maybe no one would be complaining.  Because, honestly, the men would then be flattered.  But I have to be a hot female first though, because if I posted a fake photo of a mediocre-to-ugly looking gal, then they wouldn’t be flattered.  But since they are still females, they wouldn’t be creeped out by such public showing of attraction.

Anyway, perennial favorite strongman, Terry Hollands actually shared his thoughts on a forum where I had a brief discussion with about gay men being sexually-explicit with strongmen (online and off).

Terry Hollands b

I quite regularly get messages from them and as a whole most are very decent. You do get the odd one or two that push the limit a little by being a bit crude but that’s the same in all people not just gay guys!

I think people are way too sensitive to this sort of stuff, just take it as a compliment! They understand you aren’t gay. The way I look at it if a very unattractive woman thought you was nice looking would it bother you? if not then don’t worry about this! Just cause they think you’re attractive doesn’t mean you have to do anything about it!!

I have blocked a couple on Facebook due to VERY inappropriate messages but like I said as a whole they are decent guys.

I am really happy to hear this from a strongman whom I have posted quite a number of times on the blog.  (I’ll just pretend I didn’t talk about the “underwear model” comment for Big Tall Order.  That was purely from a consumer’s viewpoint.  *winks*)  Sometimes, the hateful and insulting comments are overshadowed by something simple.  And in this case, Mr. Hollands’ understanding viewpoint on gay men.Terry Hollands 35

Yes, we are just like any kind of people.  We can be nice, obnoxious, generous, selfish, loving, and hateful.  We’re not aliens, for crying out loud.  And, please, don’t make grandiose statements that “gay bears are the worse” in comparison to something a straight woman, bisexual chick, or female dog would do.  It’s like saying that all black people like chicken.  Well then, also call me black.

Enough of today’s rant.  It’s another scorching Friday afternoon and I’d rather look at hot men.  😛

So, my dearest gentlemen of the big and burly variety…  May we have your permission to find you attractive?

Jung-Yul Kim says no
Korean Time-Traveling Warrior transformed into a Japanese Yakuza

(Jung-Yul Kim from War)


Ray Winstone - just a little bit
"Okay, maybe just a 'lil bit"

Well, I guess that’s pretty good enough. -_^

5 thoughts on “Thank Grizzly It’s Friday: I’m Sorry But Can You Allow Me To Find You Attractive?”

  1. Jeez man, don’t even dream of shutting this blog down. It’s up there with Chubarama as the best on the ‘net in my opinion. And sorry on my part for not showing more support to you. I will rectify that in the future – and that’s a promise, buddy 😉

    As for me receiving no complaints about my blog…… other than my disclaimer possibly doing its job, I have absolutely no idea why I’ve had no grief. I was prepared for virtual fisticuffs with a number of complainents, but so far naught has come to pass. Maybe I’ve just been lucky ?

  2. My bad. I thought that was the reason you posted up that disclaimer. Well, then, I feel very much alone. What exactly am I doing wrong? I have the same disclaimer. But, recently, I get comments/emails from horrified heterosexuals, accidental visitors, immature homophobes (as opposed to “mature”), and even French Canadians discussing their ancestry (I feel like Oprah).

    Sometimes, I just feel like shutting down the blog because the ones who care are the ones who hate this blog. Thankfully though, I get an email or two that actually say some nice things about this place. I’m making a vow to keep it alive for those guys. Fuck the haters.

  3. Oh by the way, I actually haven’t received any complaints about my blog yet, but my disclaimer is meant to stop any such complaints. So maybe it’s working ?

  4. Blimey, I’ve only just read this !!!

    On my disclaimer: I added that to my blog because things are so arse over tit as regards the Internet here in the UK that I felt the need to add it, but quite rightly as you say, I shouldn’t have had to. Indeed, I’ve been on the verge of deleting the blog altogether a couple of times, because if anyone decided to complain about it then I would be ‘named and shamed’ in our wonderful tabloid press and probably derided as a ‘pervert’, however the rebel in me keeps it going. That’s why I had to post something to say that I mean every post with the utmost of respect. Just to make things clear, y’know ? (I am typing this after a few beers and a couple of large whiskies, so apologies if I’m rambling somewhat).

    And as for big Terry Hollands. How fucking cool is he ? I love him even more now.

    Regards, Scouserugger.

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